Twenty years ago, the parish of Narena recognized the problem of loneliness within the community, particularly among those who lived alone. Inspired by Jesus’ example of gathering people around meals, the parish initiated Community Dinners, a free weekly meal open to everyone. This initiative quickly became a vital part of many people’s lives, offering them a sense of companionship and dignity. Beyond just providing food, these dinners became a cornerstone of social connection for those who otherwise ate alone, demonstrating the power of simple acts of hospitality in fostering a sense of belonging.
Unexpectedly, the initiative also transformed the lives of the volunteers. Many parishioners who had never engaged in ministry before found that they could contribute in ways they hadn’t imagined—whether by cooking, serving, or cleaning. This sense of participation deepened their connection to the parish and empowered them to take on other roles. Fr. Jim linked this to St. Paul's teaching in 1 Corinthians 12, which emphasizes that all members of the Church have unique gifts, and even those that seem less visible are indispensable. Just as every part of the body is essential, every parishioner has a role in building the Church, whether on the altar or behind the scenes.
Looking ahead, Fr. Jim proposed launching a similar Community Dinner at Epping once the parish’s new building is ready. He also suggested other initiatives, such as a playgroup for parents and young children, English conversation classes for non-native speakers, and a monthly gathering for seniors. These ministries would provide opportunities for connection and support within the broader community. He concluded by reminding the parish that the key ingredient in any ministry is love, as emphasized in 1 Corinthians 13. He encouraged everyone to contribute their unique gifts with love, knowing that in doing so, they would be fulfilling the Church’s mission to proclaim God’s kingdom through service.
Journal and reflect on the following questions
How does the example of Jesus gathering people for meals challenge or inspire the way I engage with others in my community?
In what ways have I witnessed loneliness or isolation in my parish, workplace, or neighborhood, and how can I respond to it with Christian hospitality?
Fr. Jim spoke about the unexpected impact of volunteering—how might God be calling me to use my gifts in ways I haven't considered before?
St. Paul teaches that every member of the Church has a unique role to play. What is a “hidden” or overlooked ministry in my parish that I can appreciate and support more?
How can I cultivate a spirit of love and service in my daily interactions, even in small and simple ways?
If my parish were to start a new outreach initiative like the Community Dinner, what role could I see myself playing, and how could I invite others to participate?
Reflecting on St. Paul’s message about love (1 Corinthians 13), how can I ensure that my service—whether in ministry, work, or family life—is truly motivated by love rather than mere duty?
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Final Prayer
Loving and generous God, You call us to be Your hands and feet in the world, to serve one another in love, and to build a community where all are welcomed and valued. Just as Jesus gathered people around the table, may we open our hearts and lives to those who feel alone or forgotten. Fill us with the courage to use our gifts, no matter how small, to bring comfort, companionship, and joy to those in need. May Your Holy Spirit guide us to serve with humility, kindness, and love, so that in all we do, we reflect Your presence and proclaim Your kingdom here on earth. Amen
